Is She Really Into You?
Well, if she liked you enough to give you her number in the first place, why isn’t she replying to you? The truth is, sometimes a girl will give a guy her phone number because it’s much easier than turning him down. That being said, if her interest in you was genuine, what should you do if she’s taking a long time to reply to your message or simply not replying at all?
Give Her Time to Reply
It can be nerve-wracking to wait for a girl you like to text and/ or call you back. However, before you get all hot and bothered, give her some time to respond. While it’s true that someone who’s really into you will reply to your messages quickly, it’s possible that there’s another reason as to why the girl you like is taking a long to time respond; that being said, if this is something that has been going on for a while, you may have to simply cut your losses. If the girl you’re into has low interest in you, you’re better off spending your on energy on someone who has a genuine desire in getting to know you.
When to Message Her
If she doesn’t respond within 24 hours, feel free to send her another message. Should you decide to contact he again, don’t display any sort of anger/frustration or ask if she got your previous message. If you still don’t get a response, reaching out to her again could make you come off as being needy, instead, you’re better of leaving the ball in her court.
Know when to Call it a Day
It’s always best to know when to quit, if she doesn’t respond to a second message from you, leave it at that. While you may feel downhearted, respect her decision to not want to take things further; her radio silence says a lot more about her than it does about you, so move on with your life. When participating in the dating game, never put all of your eggs in one basket; these days, people’s ability to communicate effectively seems to be a lost art, so don’t let one bad experience hold you back.