How to Get a Date
Despite what you hear in the media or read online, the majority of the time, it’s down to the man to ask the woman out on a date. While this is slowly changing, if you’re hoping that your long-time crush will pop the question, don’t hold your breath. If you want something to happen with the girl you like, it’s up to you to take the initiative and make a move because if you don’t, someone else will—besides, what’s the worst that can happen? Today, we’re going to go through some of the things you can do that’ll make asking a woman out a little bit easier while increasing your chance of getting the answer you desire.
Don’t Use the Word Date
When asking a woman out for the first time, how your phrase the question can make all the difference. Outside of Hollywood movies, it’s not often that you’ll hear someone say, ‘Do you want to go on a date with me?’ Instead, you’re much better off saying something like, ‘We should go for a drink this Saturday.’ Asking her out like this, rather than saying, ‘Would you like to go for drink sometime?’ Comes across a lot confident while not pressuring her into say yes. If you met a woman on a night out, rather than texting her in regard to setting something up, give her a girl. These days, most people communicate with each other through text; texting is a low-risk way of interacting with potential lovers, so, if you call the woman you’re interested in as opposed to simply texting her, it’ll show her two things. One, you’re serious about taking things further with her; two, you have the confidence to speak with her over the phone, something most guys aren’t prepared to do.
Success and Confidence
When you’re asking a woman out, a display of confidence is extremely important. While confidence is something that develops over time, if you’re able to imagine that she’s already said, ‘Yes,’ to your proposal, you’ll be able to get out of your own head, even if only for a minute. Your body language and how you communicate with a woman will go a long way in helping you to get that yes! If you come across unsure of yourself or in a way that makes her think she’s better than you, chances are, she’ll continue looking for a better option.
What to Do If She Says No
One of the reasons men don’t like to ask women out is due to the fear of rejection. However, in reality, what’s the worst that can happen? While it may feel like the worst thing in the world to be turned down, you’ll be much happier in the long-run knowing that you at least gave it a try. If you feel like you’re going to be embarrassed because you’re out in public, don’t worry about it because the truth of the matter is, people don’t care half as much as you think they do. Besides, if any guy did laugh at you getting shot down, you can bet that he’s never dared ask a woman out before.
What to Do If She Says Yes
If the girl of your dreams says yes to your proposal, you’re going to feel like a million bucks. While it’s fine to show that you’re happy, try not to come across as being too overjoyed as if this is the only thing you have going for you. Being too eager is one of the quickest ways to turn a woman off, so please, try to keep a lid on it.