The Forbidden Place
Finding yourself in the friendzone is not where you want to be, especially if it’s with a lady you have the hots for. Interestingly enough, there are a number of guys out there who don’t realise that they’re in the friendzone. In light of this, here are some things you should look out for if you want to avoid landing in the place of no return.
She’s Super-Comfortable
While there’s nothing inherently wrong with a girl being comfortable around you, if she’s too comfortable, it could be a sign that her romantic interest in your is a big, fat zero. If you’ve been in a relationship for a long time and your girlfriend has started burping/farting around you, you probably have nothing to worry about. However, if you’ve not long met or haven’t established anything beyond a platonic friendship, this could be cause for concern. Burping and farting aren’t the sexiest things on the planet, so if a girl is fine with doing this around you, chances are, she’s not trying to you.
She Tells You About Her Crushes
If a girl is telling you about the guys, she’s hooked up recently or starts going on and on about someone she’s attracted to, she probably doesn’t have eyes for you. If she’s busy trying to impress another guy(s), she isn’t interested in what you think of her, at least in the romantic sense.
You’re Like Her Therapist
If she’s always coming to you with her problems, usually problems involving the other guys she’s sleeping with, she probably only sees you as an empty shoulder to lean on. While you’re showering her with attention and telling her how wonderful she is, you’re not going to be the one on her mind when she’s in the mood to get down and dirty.
You Share a Bed but There’s No Action
It’s no secret that the bedroom is where the majority of the action takes place, so, if you and the girl you like are able to lie together and maybe cuddle without anything ever happening, she’s probably not interested. You should also pay attention to what she wears when she does sleep with you, does she wear something that could potentially turn you on? Or is she wearing the thickest pyjamas money can buy?
She Tried to Set You Up With Other Girls
If a girl is trying to set you up with someone else, she’s not into you. The last thing someone is going to do, man or woman, is set their crush up with another person.
The Power of Actions
If the girl of your dreams is telling you stuff like, ‘Any girl would be lucky to have you,’ or, ‘You’d make such a good boyfriend,’ ask yourself, ‘Does she really mean that?’ If the girl you’re crushing on genuinely thought you were a catch, she’d be with you, right?